Internet Safety for Kids

Staying Safe from Online Predators

Staying safe from predators

The internet is much more anonymous than the real world. People can hide their identity or even pretend to be someone they're not. Sometimes, this can present a real danger to children and teens who are online. Online predators may try to lure kids and teens into sexual conversations or even face-to-face meetings. Predators will sometimes send obscene material or request that the kids send pictures of themselves. Therefore, it's very important to teach your kids to be on their guard whenever they are online.

Teens are generally more at risk from predators. Since they are curious and want to be accepted, they may talk to a predator willingly, even if they know that it's dangerous. Sometimes, a teen may believe that they are in love with the person, making them more likely to agree to a face-to-face meeting.

NetSmartz.org has lots of information on internet safety for parents and kids. It was created by the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children. Go to NetSmartz.org to watch the video Ask Dr. Sharon: Compliant Victimization.

ThinkUKnow.co.uk is an educational website created by the Child Exploitation and Online Protection Centre. To learn more about the dangers of online predators, watch the following video from ThinkUKnow.

Talking to Kids About Online Predators

Talking to a teen about online predators

While it's not necessarily likely that your child will be contacted by a predator, the danger does exist. Below are some guidelines that you can tell your kids to help them stay safe from online predators.

• Avoid using suggestive screen names or photos. These can result in unwanted attention from online predators.
• If someone is flattering you online, you should be wary. Although many people online are genuinely nice, predators may use flattery to try to start a relationship with a teen. That doesn't mean you need to be suspicious of everyone, but you should be careful.
• Don't talk to anyone who wants to get too personal. If they want to talk about things that are sexual or personal, you should end the conversation. Once you get pulled into a conversation (or a relationship), it may be harder to stop.
• Keep in mind that people are not always who they say they are. A predator may pretend to be a child or teenager in order to talk to kids online. They may use a fake profile picture and add other profile details to be more convincing.
• Never arrange to meet with someone you met online. Predators may try to arrange a face-to-face meeting with a child or teen. Even if the person seems nice, this can be very dangerous.
• Tell a parent or trusted adult if you encounter a problem. If anyone makes you feel uncomfortable online, you should tell a parent or trusted adult immediately. You should also save any emails or other communication, as they may be needed as evidence.

You can go to the Crimes Against Children Research Center to view statistics and tips for talking to your kids about online predators.

Who to Contact if There's a Problem

If you think your child is being contacted by an online predator, you should seek immediate help from the following resources:

• Local Police: If your child is in immediate danger, you should call 911. Otherwise, you can call your local police's non-emergency number to report a problem.
• The CyberTipline: You can go to www.cybertipline.com or call 1-800-843-5678 to report crimes against children, including online enticement of children for sexual acts, obscene material sent to a child, and child pornography.